Rebecca Jade Hoole Coaching: Empowering Mothers to Thrive -

Imogen Firth

A few months ago i finished my sessions with Rebecca and ive waited till now to leave a review as firstly i wanted to do it the justice she deserves and secondly i wanted to know how i felt having finished the course and life post sessions had settled. Safe to say I needn’t have waited as i still feel the same way as i did the moment i had my break through with Rebecca, and wish i had found her sooner!

Five years ago i released i was slowly starting to feel stuck in everyday life, and as time went on i began to live in the future, and forgot about living in the present. But i wasnt satisfied with just making future plans, i became obsessed with the details and frustrated if i couldn’t carry them out immediately. The more this happed the more stuck i felt and the further i got from being able to get out of the cycle. I am very fortunate in that i have what many would consider a happy successful life both at home and at work so why was i feeling like I couldn’t quite get on top of things and be happy.

At the beginning of lockdown i reached out to Rebecca as i knew i needed help to get out of the rut i was stuck in but had no idea how. If im honest i was a little embarrassed - i had everything going for me, what if she judged me for not just getting over myself and appreciating what i do have rather than what i dont. My biggest fear at that point in my life, was turning 30. Surely the world ends at 30 - she assured me it didnt, turns out she was right. After the initial phone consultation, she made me feel like i wasnt the only one in the world who felt like this and that maybe it was more common than people let on, she let me express how i was feeling and at the end told me she thought she could help. So, once i was ready to emotionally, financially and physically commit to working with her she guided me through unpicking what it was that was making me feel so stuck. The small details i had got so hung up on slowly began to become irrelevant, i was starting to see the bigger picture.

I had read in many self help books that its common when going through this process to have a ‘break through’ and that when you unlock it you’ll know. I was a little sceptical.. yes the work Rebecca and i were doing together was helping but a break through moment sounded a little dramatic. But in session 5, thats exactly what happened, she had guided me through the process so well that all of a sudden everything clicked into place.

Shortly after finishing my sessions, i had my 30th birthday and i can confirm that life does go on. In fact i feel like it’s only just begun, im enjoying living in the moment, im enjoying being 30, the career that we spent so long working out if i should leave isnt a problem and im happy, confident and being promoted at work. The wall she helped me climb over has opened up so much light in my life i didnt know existed before. Of course i still have moments when things pile up but i have so many tools to sort through the pile effectively now. I can see the possibilities in front of me and that its me that creates my future, so enjoy doing it.

If you had any doubts on whether a life coach is worth it or for you, honestly Rebecca is amazing and i am so thankful for the perspective on life she has helped me see, i cant recommend her more highly.